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Loneliness Is....

A picture of a Lone Sunken boat @ Kerela close to AJ's ancestral home
I happened to come across an article (by anon) i read while i was whining to myself about my hubby not being around...no doubt unlike other hubby's AJ travels a lil more often and frequently..due to business  of course...!! And when it's due to business obviously it's unavoidable..and me and my 18month old are often left alone at home...this time though we have her paternal grandparents over for a good 2 month's..!!

But coming to think of it i always felt Loneliness Kill's...but my perspective changed a 1000th fold after reading this, I felt I must share this with all of course with a few thought's of my own as well ..... Read on people.....

Loneliness is something you cannot share.....The more i look around me, the more I am amazed at the way we are isolating & insulating ourselves from each other.

We do not talk to our friend sitting next to us, we tend to SMS someone far away...!!
We do not write one single loving note to our near & dear ones, but spend hours emailing or chatting with unknown people around the globe...!!

We are often seeking solace in anonymity. We want relationships(If you can even use the word i know not..) that have no responsibility or commitment for that matter...!!

We do not want to be questioned by anyone...fine...but as a 2 edged sword, we get back to loneliness, lack of commitment from others, & a sense of not belonging anywhere..!!

To escape from this feeling we run towards groups,cults,clubs or office colleagues, where we share our valuable time, but not our emotions..!!

Often we fortify ourselves against the next recession(of warmth, love & care that we may receive from our very own near & dear ones) then invest in people & make sure that we are committed to the most important relationships in our lives..!!

What can i say further....

Change = Happiness
Self Control = Attitude = Happiness = Think about it...!!

Further we even feel jealous that all others around us are more happier than us... and curse our luck ...but remember one important thing people...

" A Jealous person is like a candle, he keeps melting himself, while others enjoy the light...!!"

Basically what we need to understand, decide & choose for ourselves is if we want to melt ourselves which obviously will not only hurt us but also hurt our near & dear ones who really care for us, Or Choose to enjoy the light and bask in the warmth of  love & light of Positivity...!!

Lot's of love & may your life be filled with LIGHT & brightness...:-D

Shruthi

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